NYC Matchmakers Advice for Singles in New York
Matchmaker NYC – Advice to find love in the Big Apple
Have you talked about bad NY dates with your friends? Well if you have you are not along. Because of online dating, there are many options to meet new singles in New York. But turning that first date into a second and then into a true relationship is where things get incredibly hard. Our elite NY matchmaker helps singles in NY find love.
1. Don’t dismiss meeting someone great over a photo
Singles in New York seem to put more work into finding a new place to eat than they do to meet the love of their life. They will look online to read reviews and see what the restaurant is rated. But, when looking for love they swipe away someone that could be fabulous for them basked on a silly photo.
A photo can’t tell you about the person. Be open minded and look deeper into the profile. It can’t give you any info on their personality, their moral compass or how fun they are. When you are working with NYC matchmakers they will give you the background and important information on each person you meet.
2. Turn off your phone
Have you ever been on a date or business meeting when the person kept looking at their phone? They made you feel unimportant, right? Reading texts or taking calls while on a date is the kiss of death. If you are truly looking for love you need to focus on the person you are with and not think about going out with someone else tomorrow. Even if it’s a work related email it can wait for a couple hours.
You set up this date and you have an obligation to spend time with this person. If you’re even slightly rude and then decide you like the person it will be too late. People make up their minds and you can’t go backwards. Ask questions, listen, be kind and make a friend at the very minimum.
I’ve matched people that didn’t hit it off on a romantic level but they made friends. A week later one of the clients introduced my other client to his best friend. A year later they were married. Do you think that would have happened if she’s sat there looking at texts on that first date? No way!
3. You need ONE person to be in love
If your idea to find love is to go out on a first date every day of the week, you’re ruining your options of finding a loving relationship. Slow down and go on one good date a week. If you like that person then give them a 2nd change. Give things time to get to know them and see what happens. Running from stranger to stranger is going to get you nowhere.
There is no such thing as perfect, but there is someone in NYC that will be perfect for you. The most important thing in life is love and you must make your search your number one thing you do. Be serious and don’t exhaust yourself with worthless dates. Your time is worth much more than that.
Elite Connections’ NYC matchmaker will only introduce you to NY singles that we have met, done background checks and decided that they are the quality of person our NY singles want to meet.
If you are looking for elite matchmaking services NYC – call Elite Connections today at 646-688-5532 for a free consultation with our NY matchmaker. We are conveniently located in Manhattan on 5th Avenue. Read Elite Connections reviews online and see why these award winning matchmakers have been successful matching NY singles since 1994