Divorced Dads Over Fifty: Yes, There IS Hope for You Yet!
Divorced dads over fifty may encounter various challenges in finding suitable dating partners. Common problems they might face include a limited dating pool, pressure from too many time commitments, the emotional baggage that comes with a terminated marriage, compatibility, and life stage differences, limited social circles, fear of rejection, and finding a partner comfortable with and good enough for their children. But divorced dads over fifty, don’t worry. There IS hope for you yet. Elite Connections International, a professional matchmaker, with almost 30 years of experience, has helped divorced dads over fifty find lasting love by addressing each client’s individual situation with a tailored approach and service-oriented philosophy. We have never given up on love, and you don’t have to either.
Problem: Limited Dating Pool
As an individual ages, the dating pool naturally becomes smaller. This can make it more challenging to find potential partners who are in the same age range and have similar life experiences. Going on Facebook and looking for women in their late thirties and forties to “friend” has rarely helped a divorced dad over fifty with anything other than getting blocked. Asking your married friends for introductions doesn’t work because your married friends mostly hang out with other married people. And raiding the little black book of your “most eligible bachelor” guy friend who never got married is embarrassing at best. Maybe you even tried going to the grocery store and asking for help picking out melons. Nightclubs are no fun when you’re worried about the babysitter. And all the single women that were once the mutual friends of you and your ex-wife? Off limits.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
Elite Connections International matchmakers employ various strategies to continually expand our database of eligible singles, including but not limited to constant networking (it’s our job), getting referrals from satisfied clients, massive marketing, hosting events and mixers, and offering relationship coaching and dating advice.
Our Elite Connections International matchmakers actively network within their communities and attend social events, professional gatherings, and social clubs. By engaging in networking activities, they can meet new people and make connections with individuals who may be interested in our matchmaking services.
Satisfied clients often refer their friends, colleagues, or acquaintances to Elite Connections International matchmakers. Word-of-mouth referrals are an effective way to expand our database with individuals who have been recommended by people who have already experienced our services.
Elite Connections International leverages the same marketing strategies as luxury brands and celebrities to promote our services and reach a broader audience. Our founder Sherri Murphy and her daughter Tammi Pickle have appeared on numerous cable and major network television shows and news programs to talk about love, as well as getting constant press in major international publications.
Elite Connections International organizes charity events, mixers, and social gatherings that create a space to build our network of desirable and eligible singles. These events provide an opportunity to meet and interact, while also allowing us to identify potential matches and expand our database.
Elite Connections International offers relationship coaching and dating advice as part of our services. This can attract individuals who are seeking guidance and assistance in finding compatible partners, thereby increasing our pool of eligible singles.
It’s important to note that Elite Connections International prioritizes quality over quantity when expanding our database. We aim to find compatible matches based on clients’ preferences and values, rather than simply adding as many individuals as possible. Maintaining a diverse and carefully curated database is crucial for successful matchmaking outcomes. We do the work, so you don’t have to.
Problem: Too Many Commitments, Not Enough Time
Divorced dads over fifty often have established careers, financial responsibilities, and family commitments. Balancing these responsibilities with dating can be demanding and require careful time management.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
We do the work, so you don’t have to. Whether it’s expanding our roster, screening a potential match, finding women who are open to dating divorced dads over fifty, finding women who are good with and want more kids, or making the initial introduction, the amount of time saved for a divorced dad over fifty looking for true love is worth the price of admission, say many former clients.
Problem: Emotional Baggage
Divorce can leave emotional scars and lingering feelings of mistrust or fear of commitment. Some divorced dads may struggle with unresolved issues from their previous marriage, which can impact their ability to fully engage in new relationships.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
When a person is newly divorced it may seem that they are too damaged to get back out there. Thoughts like that are normal. As a divorced dad over fifty, you might think that it’s hopeless. You could spend years on an analyst’s couch or in therapy. Yet the professional best prepared to help you get back out there may be a professional matchmaker. Elite Connections International professional matchmakers can guide you step-by-step through your concerns and give practical, actionable tips for overcoming your baggage and putting the best you forward. This is a skill that, like any other skill, can be learned. And the professional matchmakers at Elite Connections International have almost 30 years of experience in teaching this skill to many demographics, including divorced dads over fifty.
Problem: Compatibility and Life Stage Differences
Divorced dads over fifty may have different priorities and lifestyles compared to younger individuals or those without children. They may seek partners who understand their parental responsibilities and are compatible with their life stage, which can be challenging to find.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
Elite Connections International professional matchmakers know that woman can be younger or not have any kids and still be attracted to a divorced dad over fifty. We’ve also seen divorced dads over fifty have good dating experiences with divorced moms over fifty. There’s no hard and fast rule. But we can filter out women who would not be a good fit for a man over fifty who has children, so you don’t have to.
Problem: Limited Social Circles
As people age, their social circles may become more defined and less conducive to meeting new potential partners. Divorced dads may find it difficult to expand their social networks and connect with new people outside of their established circles.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
Elite Connections International’s professional matchmakers are always expanding our social circles and bringing people together. You don’t have to worry about whether or not the wives of the three guys you still go fishing with have a single sister or not.
Problem: Fear of Rejection
After going through a divorce, some divorced dads may experience a fear of rejection or a lack of confidence in their desirability. This can impact their willingness to put themselves out there and pursue new romantic connections. No one believes for a minute that divorce is fun or a boost to your self-esteem. Yes, sometimes it’s for the best, but you will be going back into the dating world after years of being married. Some women might assume that it’s always the man’s fault. They might be insecure themselves, and wonder if the marriage ended because you cheated. That’s a tough situation to navigate. Some women simply don’t want to date divorced guys or guys with kids, and more women in their thirties and forties have started dating younger guys themselves. What’s a guy to do?
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
Part of our job as matchmakers is not just to give our clients what they want, but to know how to get them to be open to what they actually need. Case in point: one young woman, a composite of various women we’ve helped match over the years, we’ll call “Sara.” “Sara” just turned forty but looks twenty-nine and likes guys who have a very particular style of intimacy. She’s very pretty, low maintenance, and attentive to other people, but the guys she dates are “losers” she keeps meeting on dating apps to hook up with. Before we met this young lady, she did not see herself as someone who dates divorced dads of over fifty. Yet after counseling as to what she needs—she knows the clock is ticking to start a family, but she is already at an at-risk age for pregnancy, she wants to progress in her career but keeps dating guys who don’t support her ambition—she realizes that a guy who is “not her type” is in fact emotionally available and financially stable. She doesn’t know how to meet a guy like that, but she goes out on a blind date with one of her potential matches and it’s not love at first sight, but it’s the beginning of a serious search that ultimately pays off when she becomes a happily married woman and stepmom to two wonderful kids. It’s everything she needed and didn’t know how to ask for.
Problem: Coping with Children
Divorced dads prioritize their children’s well-being and often seek partners who are understanding, supportive, and accepting of their role as a parent. Finding someone who is compatible with both the divorced dad and his children can be a complex task.
Solution: Hire Elite Connections International Professional Matchmakers
When you hire an Elite Connections International professional matchmaker, you get someone who can coach you through the process of dating with kids in tow. While there is no one-size-fits-all answer, it’s generally recommended that divorced parents wait until they have established a stable and committed relationship before introducing their children to a new partner.
The parents should ensure that they have healed from the divorce and are emotionally ready to embark on a new relationship. It’s important to prioritize self-reflection and ensure that the new relationship is healthy and stable before involving children.
Each child may have different emotional needs and levels of readiness to accept a new partner. It’s crucial to consider their ages, personalities, and the amount of time that has passed since the divorce. Children may require additional time to adjust to the changes in the family dynamics before introducing a new adult figure.
When the time is right, it’s generally recommended to start with casual and brief interactions between the new partner and the children. This allows the children to gradually become familiar with the new person without feeling overwhelmed or pressured. It’s crucial to observe the children’s reactions and adjust the pace accordingly.
It’s essential to listen to and validate the children’s feelings throughout the process. Some children may need more time and support to adjust, while others may be more accepting. The parent should prioritize the emotional well-being of their children and be prepared to slow down or pause the introduction if necessary.
Each situation is unique. It’s important to use your judgment and consider the specific needs of your children. In addition to discussing the situation generally with your Elite Connections matchmaker, consulting with a therapist or counselor who specializes in blended families can provide valuable insight.
It’s important for divorced dads over fifty to be patient and realistic in their dating expectations. Help from an Elite Connections International matchmaker and self-reflection can help save you time and heartache. Additionally, being open, communicative, and actively participating in activities and communities that align with your interests increase the chances of meeting potential partners.