Dating Tips For Men

The fabulous matchmaking duo has worked together for over twelve years. Their experience and listening skills has given them a wealth of information that you need to hear. They will go about the business of sharing this information with those interested on a monthly basis. You can also ask their advice in their online dating column.

We have gleaned the information from young, never married singles and all ages of those back on the market again. The comments and complaints will be shared here. Please listen. 

    TOP DATING TIPS FOR MEN  
by Sherri Murphy and Keri Roberts  

1. Take a good look at yourself.
   Make yourself healthier, happier and attractive. If you drink or smoke too much, try and stop. If you need to lose weight, start now, If you are a workaholic, slow down and have fun. You have to make time to have someone in your life. If you need to be more spiritual, find a way. If you have anger from the past, get help (a professional counselor). You can’t move forward until you let go of the past and learn to forgive. You won’t find anyone you can be happy with unless you are happy with yourself. And no one can truly be happy if they harbor hate.
   
   

2. Update your look.
   How long has it been since you changed your hair style, eyeglasses, or updated your wardrobe? Go to the dentist and bleach your teeth if you need to. Yes men you should get a manicure (ladies hate bad nails on men).
   
   

3. Think Positive.
   Smile and think of something nice to say to each woman you meet. It’s easy to each person you meet. It’s easy to be nice. Get rid of bad attitudes, forget about work and never mention your “Ex”.
   
   

4. Meet people in new ways.
   Go to boat shows, car shows, art exhibits, and charity events. Take sailing, golf or tennis lessons (call your local recreation department). Join a ski club (or a yacht club) and go on a group trip. Sign up for dance lessons, go to the library or on a 3-day cruse and sign up for all the events. There are wonderful women everywhere, you just have to go out there and find them. Go anywhere but where you usually go to meet people. Because if your old way worked you wouldn’t still be looking…
   
   

5. Travel light.
   Large groups intimidate most women. We’ve heard many people say they saw someone they liked, but were embarrassed to approach them because they were in a big group. Go alone or with one person.
   
   
6. Always look your best.
   Don’t leave the house without looking like you are going to meet the person of your dreams. Wear something new, walk around with a big smile and say hello to everyone. If nothing else at the end of the day you will have had fun and met some great new people.
   
   

7. Make friends first.
   Remember you can’t walk up to everyone you meet and look at him or her as a potential mate. Look at each person as a potential friend. And if you like her, call her the next day and tell her how much fun you had and ask her out again right away.